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Thinking about Cultivation, Charlotte Mason, Consent, Care, Anti-Racism and Autonomy.

Cultivate verb : To nurture and help grow. To prepare ground. To develop, enhance, encourage, foster, refine. From the latin root Cultus, meaning ‘care’. I find something profound and quite enchanting in the cultivation of plants. All a plant will become, all it needs to…

Unexpected Home Education

Unexpected Home Education

There are now thousands of children and families the world over being plunged into the unknown of home educating, thanks to Covid-19. In some cases, schools are sending work home, in others there are parents going it alone for an indefinite amount of time. Earlier…

Hot Process Soap Making

Hot Process Soap Making

This Wasn’t Quite the Post I Meant to Write.

I had a great post planned. With a whimsical introduction about being an urban, flat-dwelling mama yearning for the country, homestead, free range life. It was still about hot process soap making, but more hygge and lovely.

But, in the wake of Covid-19, I’ve decided to rewrite the intro before I post it. Hand washing is one of the best ways to limit the spread of Coronavirus, as well as flu and other ilnesses. Using soap and washing your hands for at least 20 seconds is an easy way to control the spread of the Covid-19. If you start running low on soap, it is surprisingly easy to make your own.

Keep it Simple

The particular recipe I share below is a little fancy, but you can make hot process soap at home with just standard olive or sunflower cooking oil. As long as you use a Lye Calculator (see explanation below), you can make a batch of soap with simple ingredients; essential oil, colourants and so forth are lovely extras but not needed. Always make sure saponification is complete (again, see below for explanation) before you use your soap, but otherwise, this is an enjoyable activity and good fun, but also perhaps more poignant now than I ever expected it to be.

Yours truly, in happy homesteading mode, before it all kicked off with this pandemic. Note the awesome safety goggles!

How is Soap Made?

There are several ways to make soap. The easiest is buying “melt and pour” soap, which is a pre-made soap base you can melt, add colour and fragrance to, then reset. But if you’d like to make it from scratch, the main ways are hot process and cold process. There’s also milled soap, but I won’t go into that here.

All soap making uses lye, which is sodium hydroxide AKA caustic soda, or potassium hydroxide. As the name indicates, it’s caustic! At pH 14, it can be quite dangerous if not used correctly, but by following a recipe and using safety equipment like goggles and gloves, you’ll be absolutely fine. It is probably best to keep young children and pets well out of the way, though. The lye part of melt and pour soap has been done for you, so if you’re extra nervous about it you can still try soap making!

The Science!

To make hard bars of soap, sodium hydroxide is mixed with oils and fats to cause a reaction called saponification, which breaks down and rearranges the various molecules to produce glycerol and, crucially, soap! You could also use potassium hydroxide, which would produce a much softer soap. Side note: this would be a great chemistry lesson for your teen homeschoolers!

Lots of mass produced soap has the glycerol removed (which they then add back into other products, like bubble bath), so your bars will feel more luxurious than most commercial soap!

You can vary your results by combining different oils and fats (which lend the soap different properties), colourants and fragrances, such as essential oils. There is also the option to add extras such as coffee grounds, oats or poppy seeds, for both appearance and extra exfoliation. Trust me, once you start down this rabbit hole, it’ll be hard to stop playing around with all the wonderful things you can make!

Getting started

The single most important thing to remember is this: your recipe must be correct so the final product is safe. You want to ensure the saponification reaction is complete, otherwise there will be free floating lye in your recipe, which could burn your skin.

Extras such as orange zest can add texture and interest to your soap (and smell incredible!)

The best way to do this is use a lye calculator , such as this one by Bramble Berry. You simply put in your recipe quantities of fat and oil and the calculator tells you precisely (I mean, REALLY precisely, grams to 2 decimal places precise!) the amount of lye and water to use. It is really important that you are as accurate as possible with soap making, which is why recipes are always in weight not volume. A digital scale is a must.

I’d recommend you aim for a 5% superfat recipe, which means there is 5% more fat than the amount of lye requires to be EXTRA sure the reaction is complete. Superfatting also gives you a more luxurious feeling bar at the end. The safest thing to do is use a recipe from book or blog until you’re sure what you’re doing. Feel free to use or adapt the recipe I share below!

Hot v Cold Process

Hot process “cooks” the soap from the outside in and cold process from the inside out. The method you choose matters in a couple of ways.

Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot…

Hot process AKA “crock pot” soap cooks more quickly, with less curing time needed for your finished bars. Some people use their bars literally the next day, but a week or so of curing is still recommended by pro soap makers, to be certain saponification is complete. You don’t have to be as precise about the lye and oil temperature during cooking, as it will all be heated together anyway.

An ordinary slow cooker is perfect for hot process soap making!

Often, the fragrance of hot process is stronger because of when the essential oil is added to the mixture, so you use less to make a nice scent (which is important because it is really expensive!). The downside (or upside, depending on your outlook!) is that hot process bars are much more rustic looking when finished, compared to cold process, as they are more solid when moulded.

Baby, It’s Cold Outside…

Cold process gives you a more professional looking finished bar. It is much easier to swirl different coloured batches together to make patterns (although this isn’t impossible with hot process, it is much more challenging). You have to be more accurate with temperatures than hot process, so the cooking is more involved, plus they take a bit longer to make. The scent is often much more subtle, or you need to use more essential oil to get a good fragrance. (Be aware there is guidance about the quantity of essential oil you can use in a skincare product to still be safe – it’s worth looking up if you design your own recipe).

The main downside is cold process bars have to cure for 4-6 weeks before they are ready to use. This means finding a place to store them in your house, regularly rotating them, and not getting to use them for a month and a half. This is also important if you’ve planned your soap as a gift but left it a little late!

But How Do I Choose?!

It’s really a personal preference which you’d like to go for. I went for hot process because I was concerned about space to cure them before use, but if I made soap again (which I DEFINITELY will!), I will use cold process and rearrange a bookshelf for curing. I’d rather have more control over the appearance of the end product and actually was a little sad that it took so little time to make as I was really enjoying the process!

That said, if for some reason I was nearly out of soap, I could whip up some hot process in a jiffy and it’s all good to go pretty darn quickly! It was still great fun to make and I highly recommend trying it!

What You Need (Equipment List)

There are a few essential items on your soap making kit list, but fortunately there are also corners you can cut to save money. You may even own most of the things you need already!

Not pictured: the rubber gloves and apron I’m wearing!

There is no need whatsoever to buy a fancy soap mould or cutter (though I did because I got carried away!). You can cut a long side off of an oat milk carton and use that, or line a Tupperware or takeout box with greaseproof paper (with some protruding so you can lift it out) and it will be just fine. You can slice your bars with an ordinary kitchen knife. Until you’re sure you want to continue this hobby, there’s no need to splash out. Truthfully, there are some pro soap makers out there who still use or prefer DIY moulds.

I’ve added some Amazon links to the following items for your convenience. On the off chance I become an affiliate in the future, here’s a friendly disclaimer: by clicking these links to purchase these items, I may make a small commission on the sale and there is absolutely no extra change to yourself! Thank you for supporting me, my family and this blog!

You will need:

An accurate digital scale. Ideally one that can display decimal places. As you are working with very strong chemicals, this is really your biggest must have.

A thermometer (for cold process). Either, a cooking one like this, which is also used for things like fudge making, or a digital temperature gun. If you can, go for the gun, as there is no cleaning needed if you want to measure your lye temperature, then the oils, then the lye again. Temperature is much less important in hot process, though you may still prefer to keep your lye and oils at a similar temperature before you combine them.

An apron, safety goggles and gloves (washing up gloves work well). Remember to also wear closed toe shoes, long sleeves and tie your hair back. This is to prevent the caustic lye solution splashing and burning you.

A heat proof jug for your lye solution. Polypropylene plastic (PP) is a great choice. Some soap makers suggest glass or pyrex, too. Just be careful, as micro abrasions can happen over time which can weaken them and cause cracks or breaks.

An immersion blender (stick blender). Without this bit of kit, the entire soap making process will take AGES, especially if you are doing cold process, so it really is a must! A stainless steel ended one is ideal, but I just have an ordinary plastic ended one and it works fine. Stainless steel is just much easier to clean!

A stainless steel pot for the oils (cold process) or a slow cooker/crock pot (hot process). Note: soap can grow as it cooks, so make sure your crock pot is a large enough capacity for your batch (it shouldn’t be more than half full when you add the lye to the oils and fats).

A small container to measure the lye crystals into initially.

A saucepan to melt solid fats and oils (cold process only).

A sillicone spatula.

Stainless steel whisk.

A stainless steel spoon, for stiring the lye. Avoid other metals, as they can be reactive.

Small containers for measuring out essential oils, botanicals, other additives such as oats or seeds, extra oil for superfatting, powdered colourants etc. Could be plastic, glass, pyrex, ceramic or stainless steel.

Measuring spoons (for adding botanicals etc). If you are working with colourants such as mica powder, you may need to measure tiny amounts such as 1/16 tsp. These spoons have a 1/16 included, or you could just approximate with your usual spoons (colouring doesn’t need to be precise, though tiny amounts usually go a wrong way). (The recipe below is not coloured, an ordinary teaspoon is fine to add your zest).

For recipes that use citrus zest (like this one!) you will also need a zester or potato peeler and sharp knife. If you use the peeler method, press lightly to avoid getting too much white pith. (Honestly, I’m tempted to add zest to every soap I ever make, it smells so good!).

OPTIONAL: A fancy soap mould and cutter. This cutter link is for a crinkle cutter, which is pretty cool! You can also get individual moulds, if you prefer. Rounded ones are also available.

The Recipe!

I looked at several blogs to get a feel for how much total fat and oil would be good for a batch. Generally, a 1 pound recipe (454g) yields around 5-6 standard size bars or up to 18 mini bars. The 1 pound recipe I adapted used 500g oils and fats to create 11-12 small bars, around 50-60g each when first cut. The weight will drop as the bars dry and harden. I made smaller bars on purpose, to lower the curing and drying time. If you buy the mould I linked above, the batch fills it around half full and I cut my bars 2cm wide.

If you want to experiment lots with flavour and colour, small batches are a good idea, as you’ll use less of each ingredient so have more left for different bars. This also means that if you have a disastrous batch, you haven’t ruined all of your ingredients at once!

St. Clement’s Soap (Orange and Lemon) Ingredients

I used up some old mandarin oil that came with our cloth baby wipes instead of opening my new orange oil – it worked just fine!

You will need:

  • 70.32g lye
  • 157.26g water
  • 150g olive pomace oil
  • 150g coconut oil
  • 75g sweet almond oil
  • 75g cocoa butter
  • 50g castor oil
  • 2tsp orange essential oil
  • 2tsp lemon essential oil
  • 1/2 tsp cedarwood essential oil
  • 1-2tsp finely chopped orange zest (optional, but beautiful!)

Method (hot process)

Make sure you are wearing your safety goggles, gloves and apron before you begin. Start by pre-measuring all of your ingredients, so they are easy to add at the right moment! Make sure your mould is ready to go and your slow cooker is on low.

  1. Add your coconut oil and cocoa butter to the slow cooker to melt – use the LOW temperature setting throughout this recipe.
  2. Meanwhile, add your lye to the water in a jug and stir with a stainless steel spoon. NEVER add water to lye, ALWAYS add lye to water. You could cause a volcanic effect if you do this the wrong way around so be extra cautious! Make sure you mix your lye in a well ventilated space (indoors is fine, but right by a wide open window is best).
  3. Once the fats are melted, add your liquid oils to the slow cooker and swirl together.
  4. Add the lye solution to the slow cooker.
  5. Using the stick blender, swirl the mixture together (without turning the blender on at first – use it like a spoon).#
When you first add the lye, it sinks beneath the oil
  1. Occasionally, bring the blender to the middle of the slow cooker and give it a pulse for a second or two. Then resume stiring with it off. Then come back and pulse.
  2. Keep up stiring then pulsing until you reach “trace”. This means your soap mixture has the consistency of a thin-medium custard or pudding. If you drip a line of the mixture on top of itself it leaves a “trace” and the line is visible.
This is a (slightly thick!) trace. In cold process, I’d want to mould up a smidge before it’s this thick, but in hot process it doesn’t matter at all if it goes a bit too far
  1. Once you reach trace, you can cook your soap! Place the lid on the slow cooker and leave it on a low setting for around 50 minutes.
  2. Periodically check back on your soap. It can grow as it cooks, so if it looks like it may overflow or is getting too large, remove the lid and stir with a stainless steel spoon until it settles again. Then place the lid back on to continue cooking.
  3. Once 50 minutes have elapsed, it is very likely that the soap is ready. Some soap makers test if it ready by taking a tiny amount, rolling it into a ball and licking it – if it feels like it “zaps” your tongue strongly, it’s not quite done! If it tastes soapy, it is done. Note: lick your soap at your own risk!
  4. As soon you think the soap is ready, quickly remove the lid and stir in the essential oils and half of the orange zest. It will quickly begin to set, so rapidly transfer the mixture into your mould, flattening the mixture with the silicone spatula. Tap the mould against the worktop to help remove air bubbles.
  5. Sprinkle the remaining zest over the top of the soap to decorate the top while it is still hot and wet (otherwise it won’t stick!)
  6. Set the mould aside for 12-24 hours for the soap to harden.
  7. Once the soap is hard, it can be removed from the mould and sliced. You can slice it into any size you like! If you used individual silicone moulds, pop the soaps out.
  8. Leave the separate bars to dry and harden, periodically turning them so that all sides are exposed to the air. A bookshelf is a good place to keep them. One way to be certain that your soap is ready is to weigh the bars when they are cut, then again every day or two. When they stop losing weight, they have lost all of their excess water and can be stored in an air tight container.
  9. Lather up and enjoy!

What next?

If I made my batch again, I would replace 1tsp of the lemon essential oil with may chang essential oil. This helps the citrus scent to stay strong. My batch is still lovely but definitely more subtle now; citrus is apparently notorious for the scent fading, which I didn’t know at the time!

I hope you enjoy having a go at your own hot process soap making! Let me know in the comments how you get on, or tag me in your instagram posts @the.everyday.adventurers so I can see your awesome creations!

Have fun and happy homesteading!

Jen xXx

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Looking Back at 2019

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Our Not Back to School Week – Camping in North Devon

Our Not Back to School Week – Camping in North Devon

Happy Not Back to School week! Instead of uniforms, classrooms, school runs and assemblies, we decided to spend the week camping at Croyde Bay, on the North Devon coast. It felt like the most natural thing in the world to just continue living our lives and fall into Autumn learning gently, together, as just another part of life.

Aeryn and Zephyr kick over sandcastles at Croyde Bay. The sky is grey and moody, Aeryn's arms are outstretched and she's mid movement. Both children are wearing wellies.

It’s been quite a while since we last went camping with the kids. Zephyr was definitely a baby not a toddler last time and couldn’t remember it at all. Aeryn definitely remembered, though, and was so excited!

Preparation is key!

Perhaps our best decision in the lead up to camping was a trial run of pitching our tent in the garden. We’re very lucky that Ben’s parent’s garden (where we’re currently staying due to our huge flat renovation project) is large enough to do this, I know not everyone could. But if you’re going camping and you can, I highly recommend it. We got to check all the poles and pegs were still in the bag and re-memorise how to actually assemble it. This made is so much faster when we arrived at Croyde, which after the best part of five hours travel was certainly important! The kids also knew what to expect and were genuinely really helpful assembling poles and placing pegs!

Zephyr slots together sections of tent pole on our camping trip to Croyde Bay. He is wearing a burgundy top and rainbow striped wellies. He's concentrating really hard!

We actually slept the night out in the garden. It helped Ben and I figure out the logistics of camping bedtime with the kids in the same room. It rarely happens at home due to our co-sleeping set up – I’m with Zeph and Ben is usually with Aeryn still (until we move house, as she’s requested bunk beds!).

Holiday Time!
Aeryn and Zephyr standing in front of the sign for Ocean Pitch Campsite

We decided to camp at Ocean Pitch, which is about three minutes walk from the beach at Croyde. There are only around 20 pitches and three glamping pods on the whole site. We chose it so we didn’t have to drive constantly to do things once we arrived. It was really easy to walk to the beach, nip back for more clothes or food and head back again.

The beach itself was beautiful. The land forms a near perfect horseshoe around the bay, with sand dunes at the inland end. It’s not remote, but it also didn’t feel crowded. Being early September, it was much quieter than the August school holidays, but still warm enough (mostly!) to feel summery. I definitely appreciated the freedom of being able to stay during term time.

A view of Croyde Bay looking from the sand dunes towards the ocean. The sky is blue with fluffy clouds and the sand dunes are littered with tough, swaying grass.
Settling in

The first night was manic, as expected. Both children napped on the journey; neither usually nap anymore. It was also very windy when we arrived. I’m not sure what it is about kids and wind, but they literally couldn’t stand still for about three hours. We arrived just as I would normally start prepping dinner at home, but of course had to pitch the tent first. The kids were great and so excited, but it did take a while in the wind with Zephyr insisting on placing every peg!

It also took a long time to cook on our little one ring burner afterwards, so they snacked on all sorts, didn’t want dinner and couldn’t sleep. I think Zephyr passed out around 9.30pm in the end, and Aeryn around 11pm. We don’t have set bedtimes at home, but they do have a natural rhythm of sleep and wake that is much earlier. They were up before 6am, which is far too early for both of them (and us! Zzzzzzzzzz).

Zephyr enjoying a sleepy cereal breakfast in the tent. The photo is bathed in blue as the light shines through the canvas. His eyes are closed while he takes a bite (with his fingers, spoon redundant in the other hand)
Connecting can be Challenging

It all had a huge knock on effect the next day. Aeryn was extremely tired, angry and emotional and ended up having a complete meltdown. That collapse and release was actually really good for her in a way, she needed to get her feelings out.

I try to parent in a way that lets feelings be – I’m here to help and comfort as needed, but not to quiet. But I caught myself for a moment feeling like a much looked forward to and desperately needed break was actually the opposite. I felt annoyed that Aeryn was being unreasonable and unkind for most of the day. It really wasn’t her fault in any way, of course. We all just needed more sleep and it was all new and exciting and overwhelming.

Sometimes, connected parenting and empathy can be really, really hard. I think that it’s not mentioned enough just how difficult it can be and how much it takes out of you, constantly being emotionally available. It’s okay to find it hard.

I think platforms like Instagram can make us forget that actually, human beings are complicated and emotions are messy and fiery and no one’s children are constantly emotionally balanced just because we parent with connection in mind. We just don’t all snap photos when our kids are struggling. Everyone has challenging days – adults and kids alike.

(Perhaps camping wasn’t the smartest choice for a relaxing break, too!)

The Upward Spiral

Thing calmed a little after lunch. We took a short trip around the rock pools and beach to familiarise ourselves with the space. There was a brief excursion to a garden centre, too, for forgotten cereal bowls. But mostly, we stayed close to home. Zephyr didn’t seem phased by his lack of sleep, somehow, so just happily romped about and got on with things. But Aeryn spent most of the day on a knife edge of ecstatically happy to be on holiday and extremely overwhelmed and impossible to please.

Aeryn crouching down picking up a shell from a rockpool. She's wearing a long sleeve rainbow top and fox wellies. Her hair is long and curly and is falling around her face as she peers into the water

We found that ordinary, mundane tasks like washing up have a lot of grounding power when everything is off-kilter, even if the setting is more exciting than usual. And stories especially are amazing for reconnecting. We spent a lot of time reading that day. By the evening, we’d found a new equilibrium and they went to bed really early by choice. They both slept like logs, despite the wind (which didn’t let up the whole week!). We were all much better for that quiet day.

I suppose you could say that our first two days of home education didn’t involve all that much education. But in truth, I think we all learnt an awful lot. We relearned how to go camping as a family now we have older (but still quite small) children. How to navigate really huge, difficult feelings. How to give each other a little bit of grace to muddle through and figure it all out (the kids were very forgiving that making them hot chocolate in the high wind took the best part of 30 minutes!).

Ben reading Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl to Aeryn in our tent. She's sat on his right leg while he sits on a folding camping chair. She's wearing a red fleece and staring intently at the book. Her bare feet are dirty and curled together.

We did some more “academic” stuff later in the week, but I think it’s important to take stock of the times when nothing much of anything seems to be achieved and really think about what we actually managed to do. Sometimes, the least quantifiable things are the most important.

And up and up…

Wednesday was vastly better for everyone, which was fortuitous as it was also my birthday! Ben bought me a surfing lesson with Surf South West, so for two glorious hours I got to enjoy something just for me that I’ve wanted to do for over five years, since my last attempt in August 2014. I even managed to fully stand and catch a few waves, which was amazing for basically starting from scratch (Andy was an amazing instructor)!

The kids woke up in a lovely mood and Ben had baked me a banana bread birthday cake. We couldn’t light the candles in the wind so we all pretended! From then on, the whole holiday was honestly amazing. We had so much fun.

Home(school) away from Home(school)

We especially enjoyed the rock pools and sand dunes at Croyde. We took our buckets down an managed to find a tiny crab and several shrimp in the pools, along with anemones and loads of cockles which we left stuck to their rocks. Zephyr was SO proud of his shrimp, he carried his bucket around and kept showing us “my creature!” over and over. It’s been such a joy to come away with him now he’s out of the baby stage and really getting involved with our activities for himself.

It was seed week in Exploring Nature with Children, so we continued our exploration of seed dispersal while we were camping. I talked about it quite a lot on my Instagram, but we went for a nature walk on the Sunday before our trip, in case we didn’t get the chance at Croyde. We learned loads and Aeryn loved journalling about it after (she drew a picture of me made of seeds blowing a dandelion clock in her journal – it was so cool!) Ever since then, Aeryn has been spotting seeds without any suggestion that we look! We were actually on the dunes to look for snakes (but didn’t spot any). I guess seeds have really captured her interest!

Aeryn standing on the sand dunes at Croyde Bay.

We talked about how the grasses had colonised the dunes and gave them stability. We hypothesised why some sections of dune had lots of plants and others had none. Aeryn suspected people walking or steepness, which I’m seriously impressed with as plausible ideas! She decided to bury some berries she found to help them grow. We had a think about “on purpose” seed dispersal. She drew the comparison of planting at our allotment and I mentioned larger scale agriculture and ornamental planting. We talked about plant adaptation and why these plants are suited to the windy coast. I even mentioned aquaponics, as she was interested that not all plants need soil to grow. That blew her mind a little (and is apparently hilarious!)

Play takes priority

From such a small prompt in ENWC, we have covered tonnes of things this week. We’ve also opened so many doors into other areas. But in truth, we spent the vast majority of our camping holiday racing up and down the dunes and playing on the beach. At one point, Aeryn fell full body into the waves and got soaked, so ran around the bay in her pants instead, gleefully singing to herself. The kids drew pictures in the sand with sticks and collected shells. We even took a trip to Tunnels Beaches in Ilfracombe, where Ben and I got married, to show the kids and explore. It was awesome as it’s a very different kind of beach (lots of coves, rocks and natural tidal swimming pools!).

Aeryn standing in the surf crouched and grinning as she anticipates the next wave. She's wearing a teal t-shirt and bright yellow shorts, with no shoes.

All of those things are just as valid and important as investigating seed dispersal. One thing I love about home ed is that Aeryn doesn’t see any sort of hierarchy of activities or knowledge. Maths and art are equally important. Playing Pooh sticks is just as worthwhile as learning about bridge construction. How the waves make her feel is just as important as the fact the moon causes the tide. Learning is a holistic, whole life process. Play isn’t something you do BETWEEN learning. Play IS learning.

I can’t wait for our next camping trip! But, for now, I’m looking forward to finding out what our ordinary looks like as we move through the day to day of learning without school.


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